You have no idea that it is happening until it’s happened. Then hopefully you grow from it, and then you learn to identify that behaviour, rather quickly! I agree totally! I lived this life for 38 years until he died. Anyone who knows me now doesn’t believe I would have lived that way, and frankly, Deadpool nice hot cup of fuckoffee mug Looking back, I can’t either! It took me 3 years of therapy to undo the damage that was done.
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Did it for almost 20 years. Thought keeping my family together was more important! Thought I couldn’t leave bc I wouldn’t be able to support myself! Thought I deserved it! I could go on & on! Today, 9 years out! Struggled to the point of barely surviving but I survived! I am now proud of my pain! And I have been remarried for almost a year to the best man I know! Thankful to GOD for every blessing! Did I mention I called the police, filed charges, restraining order & divorced his a**!!! Wow was he shocked!
totally agree with you! nobody ever believed what we have gone through. nobody believed my father would beat my mother. everyone loved my father and be like ohh no not your father your father is this and this.. its easy for people to say to get out of it.. but those people have no idea unless you personally lived it That’s true but there are people who don’t put up with it and don’t stay long enough to get brainwashed and broken. Deadpool nice hot cup of fuckoffee mug Some leave after the first time. Some are stronger mentally than others. Both are possible, leaving and staying. My mom chose to leave after the first two times. I love my mom and my dad but I’m glad they separated.